FIRST PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH, ATLANTA, GEORGIA

 

Sermon by Rev. Craig N. Goodrich

Associate Pastor, Administration/Executive Director

 

July 20, 2008

 

Finding Your Place

 

Scripture: Genesis 28:1-22, Psalm 8:12-17, Romans 8:12-17

                                               

           

 

            What are the places in your life?  The significant places?  The places that mean the most to you?  May be it is a childhood home, or a vacation spot that you return to again and again. Maybe it’s a school or even a church where something very meaningful happened to you? What are the significant places in your life? And why are they significant? Have you ever gone back to visit them?

 

            Last summer, I was away from Church for three months on a Sabbatical funded by the Lilly Foundation. The centerpiece was a trip to Geneva and to Scotland with my wife Andie to explore our Presbyterian heritage. But as I thought about and planned the three months I began thinking about how I could get some time with my three children, Caitlin, Peter and Lara. Given their young adulthood and their busy schedules I determined that it might be easier and more fun to spend some time individually with each rather than try to plan some big family trip. Thankfully, each indulged me and graciously agreed.

 

            With Lara, our youngest, I went to New York City. We had a blast! She had never been there. We stayed near Times Square and walked or subwayed everywhere. We saw a Broadway show every night, took a Circle Line tour around the entire island of Manhattan, visited Central Park, Rockefeller Center and paid our respects at Ground Zero.

 

With Pete, our middle child, who is now serving our country with the Peace Corps, I went to St. Augustine, Florida for three days of golf instruction at the PGA Tour Academy at the World of Golf. We had a great time together, though I learned that golf is a very humbling game.

 

            Caitlin, our oldest and I took a different approach. When we moved to Atlanta from Washington, DC 17 years ago for me to attend Columbia Seminary, Caitlin was 9 years old. It was a traumatic move for all of us. You parents who have moved with young children know how hard a move can be for kids – it disrupts their whole world and surely this was true for Caitlin.  So we decided we would go back to Washington and visit all the significant places from our years there, and for me that included my growing up years, for like Caitlin, I was born in Washington.

 

             Over the course of three days in late May we made over 20 stops to visit places. It did have a bit of a whirlwind quality to it: Sibley hospital where Caitlin was born, Parkwood School where Caitlin went and the playground which hadn’t changed a bit: Georgetown Presbyterian where Caitlin was baptized by her grandfather Louis, Andie’s dad; St Albans School in the shadow of the Cathedral where I spent nine years, and the little sanctuary on the grounds where I was baptized and later went to chapel every day. National Presbyterian where Andie and I were married, now thirty years ago, and where Louis was the pastor, 309 Ayito Rd in Vienna Virginia, the home from which we moved, the side yard of which we had called “Caitlin’s Garden.” Then there was Wu’s Garden our favorite restaurant where as a child Caitlin had been intrigued by and came to love baby corn; 6003 Corbin Rd in Bethesda, my childhood home and the home from which my parents moved in 2005 after 50 years. The Westchester apartments where my grandparents Needham lived and where at age of three I fell headfirst into a pool and fountain that was fed through the mouth of a stone lion.

 

  On the second day of our pilgrimage, my parents, Nancy and George, joined us. We visited the graves of the Needhams in Rock Creek Cemetery, and then my parents’ childhood homes, even gaining access to my mother’s home, now owned by a family friend, who took our picture, three generations sitting together on the stairs that my mother in the 1930’s used to run up and down when she was a little girl.

 

             T.S. Eliot in his wonderful poem, meditation really, “Four Quartets” wrote: “Home is where one starts from” and he concluded “we shall not cease from our exploring and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and to know the place for the first time.” Four Quartets, Harcourt Inc., Orlando, Florida (1968).

 

Well, it was quite a trip.

 

            Why did we do it and what did we learn? There was, of course, the great poignancy of the passing of time, it is so fleeting! And perhaps we hoped that we would all gain a little more insight into who we are as people by rediscovering our roots.  But there was something else I think, a sense of gratitude and thanksgiving for the blessing of life itself, and the sense that while perhaps we didn’t know it at the time, God had been with us in all of those places and in all of the ups and downs of our journeying though the years.

 

What about you? What are the significant places in your life? You know, sometimes we do need to go back in order to move forward. Sometimes we need to go home again.

 

            John Inge, an Anglican bishop, has written a thoughtful book entitled A Christian Theology of Place in which he says this (quoting E. V. Walker, sociologist):

 

            the totality of what people do, think, and feel in a specific location gives identity to place.”  (page 26). Inge goes on to say that “any conception of place is inseparable from the relationships that are associated with it.” A Christian Theology of Place, Ashgate Publishing Limited, England (2003) at page 26.

 

 That’s true, isn’t it? It is our relationships that give meaning to our places.

 

And this is perhaps especially true with our relationship with God.

 

            That’s how it was for Jacob.

 

            In the Scripture lesson this morning from Genesis 28 we see how a particular place a barren rocky place became for Jacob became a holy place because of his unexpected encounter with the Holy One.

 

            It is quite a story. Jacob the younger of two twins is a fugitive. You may remember, he and his mother Rebekah tricked Jacob’s father Isaac into giving Jacob his paternal blessing. Isaac, the son of Abraham was old and blind. He had asked his older son Esau to prepare a savory meal of game so Esau went out to hunt. In the meantime, at urging of Rebekah, Jacob, dressed in Esau’s clothes which had Esau distinctive scent and animal skins on his arms, brings a meal to Isaac and asks for the blessing which traditionally was reserved for the first born... The trick works and Isaac, thinking it is the hairier son Esau, gives Jacob the blessing. When Esau returns from hunting and learns of the trickery, he is furious and threatens to kill Jacob who at the urging of Rebekah flees by himself to travel to Haran to stay with Rebecca’s brother Laban until Esau cools down.

 

            When the sun sets that first night, Jacob stops in a barren, desolate place. Taking a stone for a pillow he sleeps and in his sleeping he dreams. He sees a ladder or stairway from heaven to earth and God’s messengers, angels, ascending and descending, the “Jacob’s ladder” The Lord stands beside Jacob and says:

 

“I am the Lord, the God of Abraham your father and the God of Isaac; the land on which you lie I will give to you and to your offspring…and all the families of the earth shall be blessed in you and in your offspring. Know that I am with you and will keep you wherever you go, and will bring you back to this land: for I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised.” (Genesis 28:13-16).

 

It is the same promise that God gave to Abraham, Jacob’s grandfather and which is reflected in our stain glass window. Abraham is blessed to be a blessing, and through him and his wife Sarah all the families on earth will be blessed. This is the promise that Christians have for centuries interpreted as being fulfilled in Jesus Christ. In fact, in the lineage of Jesus in Matthew chapter one, the first three names in the genealogy are Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.

 

But back to Jacob.

 

When Jacob awakes, he is astounded and awed and even afraid. He exclaims “Surely God is in this place and I did not know it!” In response to the dream and to God’s promises, Jacob takes the stone that served as his pillow and sets it up as a pillar, a memorial, a marker and he gives the place a new name “Bethel” which means “the house of God” and then Jacob himself makes a vow:

 

“If God will be with me and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat and clothing to wear, so that I come again to my father’s house in peace, then the Lord shall be my God and this stone which I have set up for a pillar shall be God’s house; and of all that you give me I will surely give one-tenth to you.”

           

            Walter Brueggeman, Old Testament Scholar, says that through Jacob’s encounter with God “a ‘non-place’ is transformed by the coming of God into a crucial place.”  Interpretation, Genesis, John Knox Press, Atlanta (1982) at page 241.

 

            Brueggeman goes on to say “Jacob came to this deserted place, fleeing for his life undoubtedly without promise. He departs from this encounter changed by the only thing that can change, a word which makes available an alternative future.” (Page 244).

 

            It is a word that gives hope and courage and elicits a faithful response in Jacob.

 

            Jacob heard and trusted the promises of God and that made all the difference. And so a common place became his Bethel.

 

            What about you? As you look back on your life do you have a Bethel? Or are you in need of one?

 

            Perhaps this place where we are right now is such a place, or can be such a place, for you.

 

            You know, this place is so much more than just a building. It is a place where we believe God is present and where week in and week out, our sins are forgiven, the word and the love of God are proclaimed, our children are baptized, and we encourage and care and pray for each other. It is a place where we praise God in prayer and music and we cry out to God in our distress. A place where elders are ordained, teachers tell the good news, marriage vows are made. It is a place where the hungry are fed and the homeless sheltered. It is a place where at life’s end we are commended to God.

 

It is the place where like Jacob we hear the promises of God,  that God is with us, that God will keep us, protect us and that when all our journeying is done God will bring us home.

 

            You may have come here this morning just like Jacob, discouraged and alone, or running away. Here, we proclaim and receive the good news of forgiveness and the promises of God. Maybe God is in this place and you do not know it. Or maybe it could not be any clearer.

 

            Jacob received the promises of God. He trusted in those promises. In response, he vowed that God would be his God and that he would give back to God a tenth of all he received. How will you respond to the promises of God?

 

            As for Jacob, God was faithful to his promises. Six chapters later in Genesis chapter 35 and many years after that lonely night Jacob returned to his father’s house in peace, forgiven by Esau, no longer a lonely and fearful man but grateful and blessed  with a large family, many children and cattle. On his journey home he said to his family “Come let us go up to Bethel that I may make an altar there to God who answered me in the days of my distress and has been with me wherever I have gone.” (Genesis 35:3). And that is what they did.

 

            Friends, the same promises made to Jacob are made to us today. In Jesus Christ, we encounter our God who has come near. He is Emmanuel, God with us, and it is by his grace and Spirit that we can call God “Abba Father.” And it is Jesus who promises by the Holy Spirit to be with us always, wherever we may go, even to the end of the age. 

 

As you look back, has not God been faithful?

 

Perhaps it is time to trust him again -- in all the places of your life.

 

            You see, God is with you, God will keep you and God will bring you safely home.

 

 

            Thanks be to God!

 

Alleluia!

 

Amen.